a lot of people wonder about love and how it feels to be falling in love with someone ...is it really about butterflies in the stomach, and a confused heartbeats?... can anyone tell you whether you're in love or not?
personally, i don't think that anyone has the right to tell you what's going on inside of your heart or mind. because you're the only one who experience that feelings and no one else can explain it better then you.all what you need is to be honest and ask yourself this question: am i really in love or it's just an infatuation.
fortunately there's some ways to help you figure out if you're in love or not... and here is some:
First: you want always to be with them and talk to them or text them about anything that happens in your life even if it's not interesting to them like:" hey, i feel horribal i felt in my test today ".
but this doesn't mean that you can't have some space for your self , 'cause we all need a personal space to clarify what's going on in our hearts and brains and help ourselves to make our own path in this world and it's really healthy to have that in a relationship... you don't have to see someone every single day to be able to love them. 'cause it just happens.
Second: when you're in love it could be kind of frustrating not to be able to help the other person out whether they have a problem or they're sick or when they feel bad for some reason, and all what you can do is to be their with them and just listen to them, while what you really want is to take their pain and throw it away whatever it costs.
Third: another side of being in love is that you miss that person a lot and you always think of them or what are they doing, and you look for them in every place you go. and when you get a call you wonder if it's them.
Fourth: when you truly love someone, you start comparing everyone else to that one, and it will hurts you a lot to see them with another one and maybe you'll cry.
Fifth: you won't be able to find a reason to be mad at them even if they did something bad or stupid, and all the songs you hear makes you think of them in some how
sixth: when you get scared or lonely you just want them to be with you 'cause they make you feel save and happy, but they can also hurt you more than anyone else
seventh: if you dont love somebody you may not feel confortable exposing your secrets or your feelings or weeknesses, but if you're in love that wont be a problem and you just trust that one and tell them everything 'cause you feel like you can be yourself and not have to hold back.
Eighth: you just want to make them happy even at your own cost.
Ninth: you get stressed when they're around or even when you think of them.
personally, i don't think that anyone has the right to tell you what's going on inside of your heart or mind. because you're the only one who experience that feelings and no one else can explain it better then you.all what you need is to be honest and ask yourself this question: am i really in love or it's just an infatuation.
fortunately there's some ways to help you figure out if you're in love or not... and here is some:
First: you want always to be with them and talk to them or text them about anything that happens in your life even if it's not interesting to them like:" hey, i feel horribal i felt in my test today ".but this doesn't mean that you can't have some space for your self , 'cause we all need a personal space to clarify what's going on in our hearts and brains and help ourselves to make our own path in this world and it's really healthy to have that in a relationship... you don't have to see someone every single day to be able to love them. 'cause it just happens.
Second: when you're in love it could be kind of frustrating not to be able to help the other person out whether they have a problem or they're sick or when they feel bad for some reason, and all what you can do is to be their with them and just listen to them, while what you really want is to take their pain and throw it away whatever it costs.
Third: another side of being in love is that you miss that person a lot and you always think of them or what are they doing, and you look for them in every place you go. and when you get a call you wonder if it's them.
Fourth: when you truly love someone, you start comparing everyone else to that one, and it will hurts you a lot to see them with another one and maybe you'll cry.
Fifth: you won't be able to find a reason to be mad at them even if they did something bad or stupid, and all the songs you hear makes you think of them in some how
sixth: when you get scared or lonely you just want them to be with you 'cause they make you feel save and happy, but they can also hurt you more than anyone else
seventh: if you dont love somebody you may not feel confortable exposing your secrets or your feelings or weeknesses, but if you're in love that wont be a problem and you just trust that one and tell them everything 'cause you feel like you can be yourself and not have to hold back.
Eighth: you just want to make them happy even at your own cost.
Ninth: you get stressed when they're around or even when you think of them.
